[Relationship] How should make him to marry me?

I’m 38 years of old and have never been married. By all standards, I’m very pretty and friendly but the guys aren’t just coming my way like they used to. However, I recently noticed this new man who moved into one of the houses close to mine. He is the kind of man I would love to settle down with. I spend hours watching him through a window that gives me direct view of his compound. In the night I dream of us making love and living together as man and wife. I haven’t seen any wife or child and my investigations from those who have gone to visit him is that he appears single. I have mentioned my desire to one or two of my friends and they say, I should make the first move by going to his house to welcome him to our little community. They suggest I go with a bottle of wine and pepper soup that he won’t turn me back because I’m a woman. I have even gone as far as seeking the help of my pastor who after praying confirmed him to be my husband. It was based on this that I summoned the courage to greet him and comment on his dress sense last weekend. Beyond acknowledging my greetings, he simply entered into his car and drove off as if the devil was on his trail. Apart from wanting to know how to go about making him take notice of me, is it right for a woman to make the first move? Even though I’m really desperate to have him to myself, I still don’t know if it is right for me to make myself so obvious. Please help me as I want us to get married as soon as possible since age isn’t on my side.2014 dopeboizmuzik copyright